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woneesookuu'oo'!</scrip><transl>But people would talk to us or correct us: go sit down! go look on!</transl><scrip>Noh nih'iiceh'e3iti'.</scrip><transl>And we'd listen.</transl><scrip>Niice'wonceenokuno'.</scrip><transl>We'd go sit back down.</transl><scrip>Nih'eeteenowoono'.</scrip><transl>We respected them.</transl><scrip>'oh hoownee'eesoo.</scrip><transl>But it's not like that [now].</transl><scrip>Tei'yoonoh'o' kookon nee3eehohookeeni3i'.</scrip><transl>Kids just act crazy for no reason.</transl><scrip>Hiihooweesooku'oono' nuhu'uunoh betoot, kookon niinoo3eti3i'.</scrip><transl>They don't look on at a dance, they leave each other behind.</transl><scrip>Nee3eeno'o3oo'.</scrip><transl>It's tough.</transl><scrip>Wo'ei3 nenitee niinih'ouuwoot, wo'ei3 niibeetheenei'towuunoot,</scrip><transl>Or a person scolds [the kid], or wants to tell them something, </transl><scrip>noh niiwonei'towunoo3i' hiinoon noh hiniisonoonino, noh ne'nii'eesnonee3i'.</scrip><transl>and [the kid] goes to tell the mother and father, and that's when they get mad.</transl><scrip>Neesiniheihi3i' neniteeno'. </scrip><transl>People get angry.</transl><scrip>Niibeetniiteheiwoo3i' tei'yoonoh'o' niibeet heeneixoohoo3hoo3i' tei'yoonoh'o'.</scrip><transl>They want to take up for the kids, they want to show the kids.</transl><scrip>'oh siihoownee'eesoo.</scrip><transl>And it's definitely not that way.</transl><scrip>Woow hiiyohou'o'oo' nih'iisiisi'i'ooni'.</scrip><transl>Now the way we grew up is gone.</transl><scrip>Noh niibeet niiteheibee3i' nuhu'uunoh tei'yoonoh'o' heetihce'iintou', heetih'ei'nou'u.</scrip><transl>And we want to help these children, so [respect] will be here again, so they'll know again.</transl><scrip>Wo'ei3 nuhu'uunoh tei'yoonoh'o' heetneyei3ei3i' hiihooweetenebetino', hiihooweetenebetino'.</scrip><transl>Or those kids, where they go to school they don't respect each other.</transl><scrip>Noh heetihce'ei'nou'u nuhu'uunoh heetnei'nou'u nenee3i' nee3ebeebeetou3ei3i'.</scrip><transl>And they will know agin, and those who do know are the ones who finish school.</transl><scrip>Nuhu'uunoh niiceh'e3itii3i', nuhu'uunoh nenii3inou'u nuhu' heeteenebetiit.</scrip><transl>The ones that listen, they're the ones that have respect.</transl><scrip>Hini' hei'nou'u nenee3i' nee3ebeebeetou3ei3i' nei'nou'u.</scrip><transl>The ones that finish school, they're the ones that know.</transl><scrip>Noh heetihbesce'nee'eesoo' heetihce'besniiteheiwoono' hotei'yooniibino,</scrip><transl>So that it will be like that again, so that we can help our kids get back,</transl><scrip>kookou'nei hee3ebnee'eesinhiinoo heetihce'iintou'.</scrip><transl>I'm pleading so that it will come back.</transl><endnote>End of 13_7</endnote></body></text>